| As women, we have a natural ability to tell when | | | | seriously consider changing it if you believe he has |
| something just isn't right with our guy. There are | | | | potential to be something more than a casual |
| subtle clues he gives off when he's starting to pull | | | | boyfriend. |
| away. Once you notice these it's really difficult not | | | | It's always best to appear in control of yourself |
| to panic. You care deeply for him and in your | | | | when you're in a situation like this. Although you |
| eyes the relationship is one that is very fulfilling | | | | may feel the urge to try and convince him to be |
| and satisfying. When it becomes obvious that he's | | | | more interested in you, that won't work. You'll |
| not feeling the same way, it's heartbreaking. If he | | | | stand a better chance of repairing the damaged |
| seems to have lost interest in you, don't give up | | | | bond by moving the relationship back into |
| on him. You can actually regain his interest so he | | | | friendship mode, for now. Your goal should be to |
| loves you even more than he has in the past. | | | | take the pressure of him. If he feels that you're |
| They key is to understand exactly how to | | | | trying to pull him back again, he will likely pull away |
| accomplish this. | | | | even more. However, if you are less aggressive |
| If he seems to have lost interest in you, you first | | | | and simply approach him with the mindset that |
| need to try and determine why that is. The sad | | | | you two are friends, he won't feel cornered and |
| truth is that during the dating phase of a | | | | that will ensure he won't run in the opposite |
| relationship, men can be quite fickle. One small | | | | direction. |
| misstep on the part of the woman can send the | | | | Recreate yourself in the eyes of your boyfriend. |
| man walking. If you can recall when you first | | | | Take the opportunity to just appreciate spending |
| noticed him pulling away that will help you pinpoint | | | | time with him without talking about what he's |
| what you did. Once you believe you know the | | | | feeling or why his feelings seem to have changed. |
| root cause of his distance, you have to ensure | | | | He's expecting you to pounce on him demanding |
| you never make the same mistake again. | | | | an explanation when he seems to be losing |
| Whether or not you verbally apologize will depend | | | | interest. If you instead appear level headed and |
| largely on what you did. If you said or did | | | | completely in control of your emotions, he'll feel |
| something that hurt him directly, own up to it. If | | | | more comfortable being around you. In time, he'll |
| you believe it's more about him finding something | | | | start to see your positive qualities shine through |
| about you unappealing, it may be worthwhile to | | | | again and his interest will be recharged. |